The majority of men get off on the idea of satisfying their women. Whether it’s about pride, ego, or a primal desire to please their partners, plenty of men go above and beyond to get their girls across the finish line.
These are the same men who find squirting insanely sexy, the kind that want to drink every drop of those sweet juices. Described by some women as “the ultimate orgasm,” squirting is a natural bodily function that not every woman can experience. The debate continues over whether or not every female has the ability to squirt.
But one thing that most sexperts can agree on is that practice makes perfect. The only way to find out if you have the ability to “make it rain” is to give it your all! And that’s where we come into play. With the right knowledge, tips, and sex toys, you and your partner can successfully navigate the waters of squirting as a couple (pun intended).
So, grab some towels, and let’s start exploring!
What is Squirting and How to Make It Happen
There’s a lot of debate, controversy, and myths surrounding this topic. Is it pee? Can all girls do it? Where does all that water come from? These are just a few of the questions and misconceptions people have about squirting.
Here are some answers.
- No, not all women can squirt. According to one study, between 10% and 54% of women have experienced squirting.
- Squirting is a form of female ejaculation. It happens in response to an orgasm or sexual stimulation.
- It’s not pee, but it may contain pee. This liquid is a combination of ejaculatory fluid (secreted by the Skene’s glands) and urinary fluid (released by the urethra, which is close by).
- The amount of fluid varies in volume. Some women experience a gushing release of a colorless, odorless, water-like substance, while others emit an almost unnoticeable spray.
- Squirting takes practice, patience, and the right technique.
So, guys, if your woman isn’t flowing like Niagara Falls, it could have nothing to do with you and all to do with biology. And ladies, if you haven’t experienced female ejaculation, all hope is not lost! You may be squirting when you cum and not even realize it because the amount of fluid you expel is so minimal.
Either way, as a couple, what you’re really after is a heart-pumping, body-rocking, mutual orgasm. One that you can both fully enjoy and bask in. And if the grand finale comes complete with a fountain show that puts the Bellagio to shame, all the better! For an in-depth look at squirting for her, check out part 1 of our series – April Showers Bring May Flowers.
Now, let’s talk about supplies, techniques, and toys that will increase your chances of squirting as a couple.
Squirting as a Couple - Making Her Gush!
You will need to collect some supplies if you want to embark on a journey to this slippery wonderland. The good news is that most of the supplies are free! What do we mean? Well, you need patience, good technique, an open mind, and plenty of relaxation.
Girls who squirt have reported having foreplay along with being extremely relaxed and uninhibited before the big event. So, ladies, do whatever it is you do to relax and unwind before getting started. Take a warm bath, ask your man for an erotic massage, or listen to sexy music or a story. Getting yourself in the mood will help things go more smoothly and, hopefully, slick and saturated!
Guys, get your game faces on and leave your pride at the door. Remember, not every woman is going to squirt like the girls in your favorite porn videos. But with plenty of effort, patience, and toys, you can still give your woman a leg-shaking orgasm that leaves the sheets soaked in her sweat and lovely lady juices.
Other things to have on hand include:
- Towels
- Easy-to-clean sheets (waterproof)
- Water-based lube for silicone toys
- Silicone lube for other toys
- Small sanitary spray bottle of water or a cup of water
The last item on this list is for all the water-based lube users out there. What you may or may not realize is that when water-based lubes dry up, they become sticky and uncomfortable. But don’t worry! This situation is nothing a little water can’t fix. Simply add a few sprays or droplets of water to the lubricated area, and voilà! Now, your lube is perfectly slippery again, and you can get back down to business.
Last but not least on our list of must-haves for squirting is to relax and have fun! The more playful, open-minded, and laid-back you are about the whole thing, the more enjoyable and erotic the experience will be.
The Best Toys for Squirting as a Couple
Now, let’s get to the good stuff! There’s no shame in bringing some backup into the bedroom when squirting as a couple. Most women who have experienced a large flow of juices or squirting reported needing clitoral stimulation to make it happen. So, when it comes to squirting, dual stimulation is the secret recipe.
Below are some of Scarlett’s favorite dual stimulators and toy combos that are sure to set you on the path to squirting success. Keep in mind that if you’re a guy blessed with more than 5.5 inches in circumference or 8 inches in width, you may not need the sleeves listed below. Instead, focus more on the toy combos that deliver vibrating pleasure for you and her. You can also check out this blog post for tips on enhancing your girth.
We-Vibe Bond with B-Vibe Vibrating Heart Plug
This combo for couples focuses on stimulation from the front to the back and everywhere in between! Although the goal here is to get your girl to squirt, guys shouldn’t have to sacrifice their pleasure or fun. The We-Vibe Bond Couples Set is a unique, wearable pleasure ring designed to heighten both your pleasure and your connection with your partner. With a wireless remote control, you both can focus on one another and let the sleek toy’s powerful motor handle the rest.
Great for foreplay and comfortable to wear during sex, the We-Vibe Bond delivers heart-pumping vibrations for both him and her. The Bond is made of body-safe, flexible silicone, making it comfortable for him to wear and silky smooth against her sensitive skin. It’s also waterproof, which is a must when choosing the best toys for squirting as a couple. Place the ring around the base of the penis and align the vibrator with her clit. Once activated, you and your partner can choose the perfect setting, speed, and intensity.
Now that the front of your body is taken care of, let’s explore the backside – literally. The B-Vibe Vibrating Heart Plug is as beautiful as it is arousing. The booty bling butt plug is available in 2 comfortable sizes to accommodate most women’s bodies while also adding a touch of femininity and excitement to your squirting adventures. Equipped with 15 vibrating patterns and 6 intensities, you’re sure to find a combo that works just right.
Similar to the We-Vibe Bond, this vibrating heart plug also comes with a wireless remote. Take turns controlling one another’s pleasure as you explore your hidden desires and the road to squirting as a couple. Relinquishing control (and the remote) over to your partner requires a deeper connection and plenty of communication – two things that can also intensify your pleasure and help her achieve the epitome of orgasms.
Fantasy X-Tensions Elite with Lelo Sona 2
This compelling combo of sex toys is designed for girls who prefer vaginal penetration to anal play. The Fantasy X-tensions Elite is the perfect performance enhancement sleeve for guys looking to boost their size and their ability to please their partners. Not only does the sleeve fit like a glove, but it offers most men added length and extra girth – two things that are sure to help your lovely lady squirt.
The super-stretchy material accommodates most men, helping them last longer and get their girls to the promised land. Need even more length? The removable extender at the tip of the sleeve allows you to achieve even deeper penetration. The flexible ball strap is designed with his comfort in mind, securing snugly around your sack, giving you more stamina and lasting power.
Equipped with the Fantasy X-tensions Elite Extender, you can check internal stimulation off the list. Now it’s time to give your woman targeted pleasure where it matters most – on her clit. The sleek and sexy Lelo Sona 2 powerful clit stimulator uses Cruise Control technology to regulate the speed and strength of its vibrations automatically. With a sonic massager and 12 unique settings, this clit stimulator is sure to caress her clit to the point of no return.
Another awesome feature of this vibrator is that the stimulation is felt from the outside in. Not only does the Lelo Sona 2 cover 75% of the clit’s beautiful exterior surface, but the vibrations penetrate inside, increasing her chances of squirting harder and longer than ever before. Used together, these two sex toys for squirting as a couple deliver so many amazing benefits, from increased stamina and deeper penetration for him to multiple layers of stimulation for her.
The Happy Wife Pleasure Sleeve with Lelo Smart Wand 2
Another killer combo for squirting as a couple is the original Happy Wife Pleasure Sleeve paired with the classic Lelo Smart Wand. This match-up combines a sleek and sophisticated sleeve design with the trusted power and accuracy of a wand vibrator.
Let’s start with the Happy Wife Pleasure Sleeve for him. This revolutionary design features soft, realistic silicone and an open-ended tip for maximum pleasure. Unlike closed sleeves that desensitize guys, when you slip on this sleeve, you’re guaranteed to feel every thrust, pump, and pulsation as you drive your woman wild. The flexible strap keeps the sleeve securely in place, so you can go as hard and for as long as you want!
So, what's in it for her? Instead of focusing on length, the Happy Wife Pleasure Sleeve adds inches where it matters most – in girth. Most women prefer a fatter penis over a long and skinny one. Plus, adding inches to your circumference means hitting more of her sensitive pleasure zones and making it more likely that she’ll shower you with praise – literally.
While the Pleasure Sleeve expands her insides, let the Lelo Smart Wand electrify her exterior. This large vibrating wand combines the traditional features you love with cutting-edge Sense-Motion technology and an ergonomic design. The motor is more powerful than ever before and completely waterproof, making it the perfect choice for squirting as a couple. The wand’s extra-large head covers the entire surface of her clit, not missing an inch. Use the extra-long handle to maneuver the wand between your two bodies, power it on, and let years of trusted science and research help you achieve the greatest orgasm of your life.
The Happy Wife Pleasure Sleeve with Clit Stimulator/Grind Pad
We get it. Bringing a suitcase of sex toys into the bedroom isn’t for everyone. Some couples aren’t comfortable using toys, don’t know which ones are best, or simply want their entire focus 100% on each other. Well, we’ve got good news for you! The Happy Wife understands a couple’s need for deep intimacy and the role it plays in achieving mutual orgasms (and squirting).
All of our Pleasure Sleeves are designed with comfort and satisfaction in mind. However, there’s something special about the Pleasure Sleeve with Clit Stimulator. As the name suggests, this girth enhancement sleeve is equipped with an added feature – a soft, flexible, and textured clit stimulator/grindpad that aligns perfectly with your partner’s clit. With the Pleasure Sleeve securely in place, you and your lover can find the perfect position and angle to experience dual stimulation and unmatched ecstasy. Missionary and cowgirl are the two best positions when using this sleeve model.
The Pleasure Sleeve with Clit Stimulator also allows for hands-free fun. While the vibrators and wands mentioned above are powerful and effective, even a wireless remote requires plenty of coordination and an extra hand. Trying to juggle multiple toys and connect with your partner, all while trying to orgasm and squirt, can feel more like work than play. This Happy Wife product eliminates the need for dividing your attention so you can focus on the only thing that matters – mutual, life-changing orgasms and a saturating grand finale.
Armed with these killer couples combos and an open mind, you and your lover can achieve anything – including the exotic and elusive female ejaculation.
