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About Us

One morning, during a candid conversation about their sex life, Scarlett & DJ realized they wanted something that truly enhanced intimacy and satisfied both partners.

What began as curiosity quickly turned into a mission — to create better sex toys, deeper connection, and a better bedroom experience for real couples just like them.

One morning, during a candid conversation about their sex life, Scarlett & DJ realized they wanted something that truly enhanced intimacy and satisfied both partners.

What began as curiosity quickly turned into a mission — to create better sex toys, deeper connection, and a better bedroom experience for real couples just like them.

Meet Scarlett and DJ:
The Creators of The Happy Wife®

Like many couples in their 30s–50s, we balance raising kids, running a business, and keeping the spark alive in our marriage. Scarlett loves cooking, entertaining, staying active, and those special date nights with a good bottle of wine. DJ? He looks forward to what happens after date night… back in the bedroom.

Frustrated by cheap toys and disappointing results from major retailers, we decided to do something about it. We started building a brand focused on quality, connection, and pleasure that truly works for couples.

The result? The Pleasure Sleeve. — and a catalog of over 2,000 handpicked, high-quality sex toys and products for men, women, and couples.

Scarlett & DJ

Founders & Creators

“Supporting traditional relationships in modern times”

We're a real married couple — and we're here to help other couples stay connected, satisfied, and sexually fulfilled.

At The Happy Wife, we believe in strengthening the bond between partners by embracing both classic values and modern exploration. Whether you're rekindling intimacy, introducing toys for the first time, or exploring new fantasies together, our goal is to help you grow closer — in and out of the bedroom.

  • We’re not a faceless brand — we’re Scarlett & DJ, and we’ve helped over 1,000 couples firsthand.
  • 5 years in business, 100,000+ customers served — and growing stronger every year.
  • We design, test, and personally stand behind our products, including our exclusive Pleasure Sleeve line.

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The Duo

Scarlett

Scarlett is the heart of The Happy Wife — a proud wife and mom who brings real-world experience, warmth, and wisdom to everything she does.

As co-founder, she’s passionate about helping women feel confident in their bodies and empowered in their relationships. Her focus is on creating space for couples to rediscover connection, pleasure, and trust — all while honoring the values that keep love strong.

  • Leads curation of our women's and couples’ collections
  • Advocate for women’s pleasure, confidence, and sexual exploration
  • Creates blog content and resources that support wives and couples
  • Balances tradition and modern intimacy with a fresh, sex-positive voice

Scarlett has helped guide thousands of women and couples toward deeper intimacy and more fulfilling connection — all from the perspective of a wife, mom, and modern relationship guide.

DJ

DJ is the creative mind behind The Happy Wife’s exclusive penis sleeves and a trusted voice in men’s intimacy and performance. As both a product designer and enhancement coach, DJ combines hands-on experience with practical guidance to help men feel more confident, perform better, and reconnect with their partners.

  • Designer of The Happy Wife’s exclusive Pleasure Sleeves
  • Specialist in male enhancement and performance tools
  • Host of educational Vlogs, product demos, and intimacy blogs
  • Trusted by over 1,000 men and couples seeking better sex and deeper connection

If you’re ready to explore your full potential, DJ brings the experience, innovation, and real-world guidance to help you get there.

Our Story

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The Birth of the Pleasure Sleeve

In 2016, we set out to design a product that could boost confidence, enhance intimacy, and create mutual satisfaction. After endless prototypes, testing, and sleepless nights, we held our first prototype: A girth-enhancing, open-ended penis sleeve that felt real, performed beautifully, and brought couples closer than ever.

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From Idea to Reality

By 2018, the concept evolved into a refined product. We hosted a small gathering to share it with close friends, and the response blew us away. People didn’t just love the toy — they talked about how it made them feel more connected, confident, and turned on. We knew we had created more than just a toy — we had sparked something bigger.

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The Happy Wife® Launches

In 2020, we officially launched The Pleasure Sleeve™ and The Happy Wife™ brand. We knew we had created something truly special — a product that performed, connected couples, and felt like nothing else on the market. But we also recognized that not every couple is starting with a sleeve. So, we set out to build something bigger: a store where couples could find the best in male enhancement, women’s pleasure, and couples’ intimacy products — all curated, tested, and trusted.

“Bring couples closer together,
both physically & emotionally”

Sex toys aren’t just for fun — they’re a powerful tool to bring partners closer, improve communication, and elevate pleasure for both people in the relationship.

That’s why we’ve put so much care into designing our signature Pleasure Sleeves, available in 25% and 50% girth-enhancing options. Whether you're looking to try something new or intensify your connection, these sleeves are wife-designed, wife-tested, and built to deliver real results.

We also carry one of the most extensive catalogs of penis sleeves in the U.S., featuring America’s top-selling brands — all warehoused and shipped discreetly from within the country. From realistic designs to fantasy favorites, there’s something here for every couple.

We’re here to help you rediscover passion, experiment together, and make intimacy more exciting — no matter how long you’ve been together.

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Exclusive to The Happy Wife®

You won’t find this anywhere else. Designed and developed in-house by Scarlett and DJ, our signature Pleasure Sleeve is sold exclusively at The Happy Wife — no resellers, no third parties, and no compromises.

  • Exclusive design — Created by a real couple, for real couples
  • Two size options — Choose 25% or 50% girth enhancement
  • Medical-grade platinum silicone — Soft, body-safe, and long-lasting
  • Open-ended & beginner-friendly — Made to feel amazing for both partners

This is the original Pleasure Sleeve couples trust to transform their connection and intensify shared pleasure — only from The Happy Wife.

A Fun and Discreet Shopping Experience

Shopping for pleasure should feel exciting — and safe. That’s why The Happy Wife makes the entire experience smooth, private, and worry-free from checkout to delivery.

  • Discreet packaging — No logos, branding, or giveaway labels
  • Fast, U.S.-based shipping — All items ship from within the United States
  • Secure checkout — SSL-encrypted payments for peace of mind
  • No embarrassing charges — Your billing statement will show a generic name

Whether you’re shopping solo or with your partner, you can explore your desires with confidence — and total privacy — every time you shop with us.

Quality You Can Trust

We don’t just sell toys — we stand behind them. Every item is hand-selected for performance, safety, and reliability — giving you peace of mind with every purchase.

  • 90-Day In-Store Warranty — We cover your purchase for the first 90 days
  • 14-Day Satisfaction Guarantee — Not satisfied? We'll make it right
  • Manufacturer Warranties — Additional coverage offered by select premium brands
  • Mid-to-High-End Brands Only — No cheap knockoffs, ever
  • USA-Based Shipping — Fast delivery, discreetly shipped from American soil

With over 100,000 satisfied customers and a growing catalog of trusted brands, The Happy Wife is your go-to for premium quality and service that lasts.

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We’re here to help with our live chat feature, available intermittently throughout the day from 9 AM to 9 PM PST! For any product-related inquiries, just reach out and get real-time assistance from our team. We're dedicated to making your shopping experience seamless and enjoyable!

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If you experience reliability issues with your toy, simply email a picture or video of the damaged item and your order number to sales@thehappywife.com. We will work with you to replace the original item, substitute a similar item, or provide a store credit.

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